If you recall, a few months back I issued the
AFC Spreadsheet Challenge, inviting all married men who were curious about the Red Pill to track their sex lives with their wives over a 90 period, starting August 1 and ending October 31. As that day draws to a close, I encourage all of you to make that final push to get your numbers up or, conversely, begin the painful process of data analysis with the data pool that you've assembled.
How many times did you approach? How many times did you initiate? How many times were you successful? How many times were you rejected? What reasons/excuses/rationalizations did your wife give you?
Remember, there is no right answer, except in the sense that you are evaluating raw, hard, objective data about your sex life. Every relationship is different, so don't feel competitive with other men about your stats. What's important is what you feel when you look down at those raw numbers, and realize what they say about you, your wife, and your relationship. Without real data, it's impossible to spot a problem, much less fix one.
Feel free to share your results here (Anonymously, if you like), because while this isn't a competition, the whole secondary purpose of this exercise is to share data with your peers for review. If you're working a Red Pill strategy, how does it stack up to the Blue Pill strategies? Let's see what the data says. And no embellishments, Gentlemen.
I'll probably leave this post up awhile. As a brief programming note, I'll probably be neglecting this blog for a few months, thanks to one of my projects being green-lighted (could be an Ian Ironwood-written porn movie coming out, it seems) along with some other writing projects I need to focus on. I'll still be lurking, don't get me wrong, but if I'm not as active on Twitter, here, and Reddit for awhile, don't get worried. This is one of my most productive times of year.
Lastly, Happy Hallowe'en, and to my Pagan brethren, may you have a productive and reflective Samhain!
How many times did you approach? Everyday
ReplyDeleteHow many times did you initiate? Everytime
How many times were you successful? Everytime
How many times were you rejected? Never
What reasons/excuses/rationalizations did your wife give you? Never, even on her period, just catch her in the shower.
I made it clear before we were married that we would do it everyday.
OK, so why not just TAKE her? Grab her hair from behind, bend her over and bang her good?
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How many times did you approach? Never
ReplyDeleteHow many times did you initiate? Never
How many times were you successful? I successfully didn't initiate or approach every day! :)
How many times were you rejected? Never.
What reasons/excuses/rationalizations did you wife give you? She didn't notice.
I stopped allowing her the opportunity to reject or control me on a daily basis and I feel much better for it. I realized I'm not actually in a relationship with a wife, and if she dropped out of my life tomorrow I wouldn't be affected in the slightest. Empowering I suppose. After 20 years of marriage and less than 100 total sexual encounters in that time I realized that I have no actual positive memories or experiences, physical or emotional, regarding sex with my wife. They are all tainted with resentment, frustration, abandonment and sheer loneliness.
Similar situation here. 15 years married. Funny thing is I was keeping track a few years back. It was pathetic. Now, there's nothing to keep track of because I don't initiate anymore and she doesn't care.
DeleteI still want sex, just not with her. Sometime about 7-8 months ago, I just hit a point where I could no longer deal with duty sex, "I'm tired, I have a headache," and all that. And strangely, like you said, it's almost a relief to be free of that rejection and control from her.
Wow, thats pathetic
DeleteI track sexual encounters with my wife continuously, just for fun, here are my results.
ReplyDeleteTypically we have sex on average 10 times a month which I am perfectly happy with. The odd month we do it 15 or more times, but those I find are too much pressure and the sex isn't as good.
I initiate 9 out of 10 times on average and usually get shot down once a month and she initiates once a month.
Interesting "study".
15 yrs of marriage. First 5 years 2-3x week, half and half initation. Next 5 yrs, 1x week mostly initiation by me. (2 kids were born) Next 3 yrs, 1-2x week mostly initiated by me. Last yr 1.5 yrs, 6 times total. Last 11 months 0 times. She said no 100% of the time. I quit initiating a few months ago. Dont want to divorce bc of the kids but not sure what to do. Both of us virgins when we were married. May have to separate, at least I wont be tormented by lack of sx and seeing her around. - tex
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ReplyDeleteHey Tex - ain't no miracle cures, but I'm thinkin' you could use a read through Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life Primer. How do they say? "It gets better." Heh, but we gotta own our part of the mess . . .
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Psalm 139:14–I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
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OT: I noticed your comments on intimacy and was overjoyed to see someone explaining that a deeper level of relating is possible. I wish more people could experience that. Perhaps with your reputation as a Manosphere Elder, the message will be heard. Looking forward to the book! If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know :)
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20+year marriage. DICKS (Dual Income Cocky Kids)
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How many times did you approach? Every other day- 15 total times.
Rejected: 3 times.
She initiated 2 times
Had sex 14 times last month.
What reasons/excuses/rationalizations did your wife give you? Not in the mood, shark week, and tired..
20 years married.
ReplyDelete6-10 times a month average.
Always approach except for once a month.
7 days before shark week, give or take a day. Doesn't matter what the hell I do, ka-boom! Kind of depressing knowing she's a chemical cycle machine.
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