tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post6289886902791350808..comments2024-03-27T17:13:17.767-04:00Comments on The Red Pill Room: Wife Test: AttractivenessIan Ironwoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09776355241706284910noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-11141694765395092132016-07-15T02:11:28.535-04:002016-07-15T02:11:28.535-04:00Some of what you say is very unfair to women on th...Some of what you say is very unfair to women on the spectrum of Autism and Aspergers. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-85994995405698614822014-05-03T23:07:43.773-04:002014-05-03T23:07:43.773-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Sherinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-45759247469690454462014-01-23T01:39:39.150-05:002014-01-23T01:39:39.150-05:00For female readers, regarding attractiveness, plea...For female readers, regarding attractiveness, please see What Women Never Hear's posts on "pretty time."<br /><br />Also, men, please realize the profound influence you can have on this. I've always been a bit of a tomboy. I didn't know what conditioner was for until age 19, didn't own makeup until age 23, and even did the pixie cut thing (I've since recovered.)<br /><br />That being said, six months ago, an older, married coworker who I greatly respect commented on how nice I looked with earrings. So I went out and bought more earrings, and now I wear them every day.<br /><br />That same gentleman noticed and complimented me on a rare day when I had put on eyeshadow (for an AM presentation.) Suddenly, the next day when faced with getting to work sooner or taking 45 seconds to put on some damn eyeshadow, my decision was much easier. Now it's part of my every day routine. I suppose in the naiveté of a youth spent outside the female social matrix, I never realized that people even notice these kinds of things, especially men.<br /><br />Also, now that I'm working on improving my appearance, I have so much more respect for well put-together women. There is nothing easy about it, and I've got about a decades' worth of "experimenting with style" to catch up on.Meggrznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-77001266980730099122014-01-21T10:36:40.658-05:002014-01-21T10:36:40.658-05:00The FSM is like the ocean . . . it exists whether ...The FSM is like the ocean . . . it exists whether you're in it or not. You can distance yourself from it, but it's still going to be there, affecting your life. While your position might not be "strong" in the FSM, that doesn't necessarily mean that's to your detriment. Just as not every man is cut out for Alphahood, not every woman is cut out to endure the brutal social maneuvering implicit in the FSM's core. In fact, many women prefer to linger on the periphery, to their credit and benefit. <br /><br />The key is to know and understand the Matrix enough to avoid tripping over some of the obvious wires, falling into the most blatant traps, and being mindful of what's going on around you, socially speaking. But there is significant feminine power in being able to selectively swoop down, open up a can of whoop-ass on the Matrix, and make it do your bidding without incurring the penalties of too long a stay.<br /><br />And yes, the Matrix varies in importance with different women and over the course of a woman's life it will be more and less important at various times. Look up my posts on the FSM for more details. Good question.Ian Ironwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776355241706284910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-14674085957442298832014-01-20T18:11:05.641-05:002014-01-20T18:11:05.641-05:00Ian, this is a very interesting and thoughtful pie...Ian, this is a very interesting and thoughtful piece to me (a woman). <br />You talk often about the female social matrix and this is something that I really don't deal with very often. Maybe because I'm in my 20s and don't have children yet, or because I only have a small number of close friends. I never did the sorority thing because I truly hate female drama and competition. Do you think that the importance of the "matrix" varies with different women, or is it something I must embrace? <br />miss goldfishnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-83812472502512243462014-01-18T12:40:22.460-05:002014-01-18T12:40:22.460-05:00I've come to the sincere conclusion that the l...I've come to the sincere conclusion that the long spaces between posts is not because of the time it takes to write them, but because of the time it takes for you to find those wonderful pictures you sprinkle into your posts. <br /><br />(My mind is made up, don't confuse me with the facts)pdwalkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05943525787137905313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-2534790465222671592014-01-18T08:35:26.371-05:002014-01-18T08:35:26.371-05:00Excellent post!!
Excellent post!! <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com