tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post5029420106399781434..comments2024-03-27T17:13:17.767-04:00Comments on The Red Pill Room: 50 Shades Of Game: Why Feminists Hate The BookIan Ironwoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09776355241706284910noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-28819263130143457502012-11-05T16:43:12.587-05:002012-11-05T16:43:12.587-05:00good bloggood blogadult datinghttp://www.adultsexdating-net.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-51896993797879314852012-11-02T08:21:15.204-04:002012-11-02T08:21:15.204-04:00I've tried to make this point about a zillion ...I've tried to make this point about a zillion times at yahoo gender studies, perhaps I should've written a huuuuuuuge wall of text and maybe some would get it there. <br />But seriously, I thought something good would come at the end. I just kept reading it, like a fool. <br /><br />It's like an essay saying "I wipe after I poo, and so should you"<br /><br /><br />I highly suspect my husband forbids me random things just because he knows this stuff.<br /><br />CheersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-86109441646601834112012-09-12T06:24:27.932-04:002012-09-12T06:24:27.932-04:001. Roissy's 3rd Commandment: III. You shall ma...<br /><br />1. Roissy's 3rd Commandment: III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority <br /><br />> So what's Roissy's mission? Last I heard he worked at a tax-payer funded, government job in a cubicle pushing papers. That is, until Lady Raine and Denis Ramano got him fired, after which he went on unemployment.<br /><br />2. "Mommies and middle-aged spinsters everywhere are getting a serious case of the hornies over this book."<br /><br />The woman who wrote it is middle age. From what I hear from young women, the book is horribly boring and there is no BDSM in it.<br /><br />3. About your female friend and her boyfriend who was so bad in bed she had to teach him (AND he was unwilling to learn) and discuss the problem with her girlfriends, that's not love. And she's lucky he dumped her. In the beginning of a relationship when the brain chemicals are firing one feels "in love" and is capable of tolerating anything, even bad or orgasm-less sex. However after those chemicals where off - then what? You're stuck with a lousy lover who is both unable to grow because he's unwilling to. <br /><br />It will only take a few months to get over it and then she'll be free to find a quality lover (or a man eager to become one with a little coaching) whom she can really bond with.<br /><br /><br />If not nipped in the bud, bad sex will ruin a LTR once those initial "new romance" endorphins subside.<br />Thus Spakenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-13372018333033484952012-09-11T11:01:57.414-04:002012-09-11T11:01:57.414-04:00Thanks. ;)Thanks. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-10344180858498370932012-09-10T10:07:57.479-04:002012-09-10T10:07:57.479-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Ian Ironwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776355241706284910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-27193525198800928232012-09-09T08:55:50.769-04:002012-09-09T08:55:50.769-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-84309719711517128732012-09-07T21:38:40.801-04:002012-09-07T21:38:40.801-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-75213658519519370332012-09-07T21:25:12.630-04:002012-09-07T21:25:12.630-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-56722583946928030892012-09-04T16:10:44.767-04:002012-09-04T16:10:44.767-04:00I think you also need to control for the "ban...I think you also need to control for the "band wagoning" effect, aka "the oprah effect" aka the "Soooo, what are we having," effect. If the FSM says "X is popular!" X will be done for no other reason than it's a consensus move. I'm sure that there is a significant amount of that as well. <br /><br />You'd have to cross correlate with the vibrator sales. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-46912910298567665182012-09-02T22:11:40.018-04:002012-09-02T22:11:40.018-04:00Great post. I love it. I haven't read the book...Great post. I love it. I haven't read the book, probably won't read the book. Getting laid like tile at home. LOL!! Laura Prowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07789777454273474756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-27300641824395007902012-09-01T17:14:33.737-04:002012-09-01T17:14:33.737-04:00Great blog. SubbedGreat blog. SubbedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-41339743458682047712012-08-30T19:46:48.677-04:002012-08-30T19:46:48.677-04:00I'd love to read something like this, too.
D...I'd love to read something like this, too. <br /><br />Do you think that it's the sort of book that could only be written by a man? Who would the main audience be, men or women?Katrinkanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-89166500174709385472012-08-30T19:42:21.933-04:002012-08-30T19:42:21.933-04:00Pure. Solid. Gold.
Forwarded to every single fem...Pure. Solid. Gold. <br /><br />Forwarded to every single female '50 Shades' reader (and the guys who are baffled by its popularity) that I know.<br /><br />Woo nelly, I am gonna get some _backlash_ for this... <br /><br />Thanks again, Ian. :)Katrinkanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-89761224952416121052012-08-30T17:11:36.903-04:002012-08-30T17:11:36.903-04:00There are romance novels where the hero and heroin...There are romance novels where the hero and heroine are already married. Here's a list of some of them:<br />http://www.amazon.com/forum/romance?_encoding=UTF8&cdForum=FxM42D5QN2YZ1D&cdThread=TxC02JZS4XEPTA<br />http://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/164646-books-with-married-couples<br /><br />On the other hand, here's someone who complains about them and finds them boring. One of the reasons brought, it takes away the myth of the happily ever after:<br />http://karenknowsbest.com/2009/11/02/marriage-in-trouble-romance-books-snoozefest/malcolmnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-49864642301219585042012-08-30T12:37:41.011-04:002012-08-30T12:37:41.011-04:00I did.
To take care of my abandonment issues, I...I did. <br /><br />To take care of my abandonment issues, I married someone who is all for me. For rejection, a sort of a celebrity and for entitlement issues, a trust-fund baby - all one.<br /><br />The wife's love, security, and companionship helped me understand these issues. Had it not been for her, I'd still be struggling 'cowboying' up. <br /><br />I respect her, she keeps me happy, keeps the house spic- and-span, tends to our kid more than her life, but, the sex is missing. <br /><br />Call me a dog, but now that the basics have been taken care of, I'm wandering. <br /><br />Now what?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-53688670221946433602012-08-30T09:34:30.927-04:002012-08-30T09:34:30.927-04:00I'm curious to see how the story ends...probab...I'm curious to see how the story ends...probably with a big promotion, discharge, medals, a good job and marriage. HEA.<br /><br />I'd love to see a "Red Pill Romance": one in which the hero is a Gamma schlep who learns Game. Or I'd like to see 50 Shades from the dude's POV. I'm sure it would be a radical departure from the norm.Ian Ironwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776355241706284910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-80907483265388192552012-08-30T09:32:21.349-04:002012-08-30T09:32:21.349-04:00You cowboy up and you get over it.
It is never, e...You cowboy up and you get over it.<br /><br />It is never, ever too late to re-invent yourself -- in fact, you do so all the time. If you have issues from the past, you make a conscious choice as to whether or not you are going to let them drag you back into the past or not. Your past informs your present, it doesn't define your future. <br /><br />Only you can decide not to cart back-breaking emotional baggage up this mountain. You certainly can't do anything to change it, but that doesn't mean you let it rule your life. That's the whole idea behind the Men Going Their Own Way (MGOW) movement: you and only you decide what your fate is going to be -- marriage, family, business, sex, money, power, solitude, success, whatever -- and then you go there. Free of your own limitations. No one is saying it's easy. In fact, if you do it right, it may be the hardest thing you do in your life. <br /><br />But Game is a helpful tool to get you there, as you will be interacting with women in some form or capacity in most directions you go from here. Self pity and regret? Far less helpful.Ian Ironwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776355241706284910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-28935119246802154602012-08-30T09:22:20.306-04:002012-08-30T09:22:20.306-04:00"Back in the soldier's arms" by Sora..."Back in the soldier's arms" by Soraya Lane http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0373177976<br /><br />Sorry, you did say there weren't any. It's pretty rare, admittedly.Clint Griffonhttp://clintgriffon.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-48167045730523677842012-08-29T22:27:31.954-04:002012-08-29T22:27:31.954-04:00Brilliant.Brilliant.Laguna Beach Fogeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027025872132699493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-3122081580750645122012-08-29T19:37:42.269-04:002012-08-29T19:37:42.269-04:00Thank you.
What does one do with one's aband...Thank you. <br /><br />What does one do with one's abandonment, rejection and entitlement issues? Who has seen one's Dad struggle in business all his life? Who has been labelled the poor cousin? What does one do? -- He picks himself up, dusts himself off, escapes to America and starts all over again. <br />Where does that leave one with any Game? How does one get over that past? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-39483796050329144942012-08-29T18:53:38.764-04:002012-08-29T18:53:38.764-04:00Start with my last post. Then buy a copy of Marri...Start with my last post. Then buy a copy of Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay. Start paying far more attention to what women do than what they say. Work out like your life depends on it. Start telling, stop asking. No one is going to give you permission to lead. Start thinking of yourself as a valuable asset, not an appendage to a woman. Start valuing your own desires and respecting your own sexuality. Buy a black fedora and rock it hard. Be "the most interesting man in the world". Walk around like you have a broadsword on your hip. Talk to strange women and don't be afraid of a little light flirting. Stand up straight. Make the bed, every morning -- it's where you have sex, and you should respect your stage. Don't be confident -- be overconfident. Call your mother every Sunday. Be able to change a tire on demand. Solemnly thank veterans for their service. Test drive a sports car. Sing loudly in the shower without caring who hears. Pay more attention to what you wear. Be unafraid to look at and appreciate a good-looking woman, and be able to do it without being labeled "creepy". Complain about the cooking when it's bad. Praise the fellatio when it's good. Be able to drop a compliment at an instant's notice. Have a picnic date pre-prepared in the trunk of your car at all times. Learn how to speak Italian, at least the dirty words. Do something no one else knows about, and take satisfaction from that. Get your shoes shined by a guy who does it for a living at least once in a while. Overtip when the service is outstanding. Pay an older woman a compliment and then flirt with her outrageously. Go play pool in a really sketchy dive. Take guitar lessons. Be a good loser. Figure out your favorite manly drink and instantly ask for it at the bar. Pick something off the menu in the first three minutes and don't worry about whether or not you should have gotten the fish. Tell her she has beautiful eyes. Figure out if you're a beer man or a liquor man and don't pick up a Zima even if there's a gun to your head. Know how to identify poison oak, ivy, and sumac. Sit on your front porch and watch the sun set, just because you want to. Read a classic in public without shame or fear. Stay in the game even if you've got a shitty hand, and play it like it's pocket aces. When you switch from cunnilingus to intercourse, do her hard for ten minutes and then go back to cunnilingus until you're damn well good and ready to continue with screwing. Make up private nicknames for her boobs. When someone says "that's sexist!" shrug and say "I'm OK with that." Practice your free throw. Call your dad and ask him what he would do, even if you already know the answer. Imagine a better way to state the problem, then make the asshole on the team see reason even if you have to beat him to death in the men's room. Be able to sing one song in public and do it well. When you shake hands, be the guy with the stronger grip. When a woman tells you she's a feminist, grin broadly and say "Really? Seriously?" and then shake your head and walk away laughing. Create some art, just because you can. Go to a minor league baseball game and shout at the pitcher. Tell her she's pretty and try to mean it. Learn how to ballroom dance. Build a shed. Stay up all night watching TED talks, and let your head spin. Suggest anal, even if you know she's going to decline. Know who your great-grandparents were, where they came from, and what they did with their lives. <br /><br />That's enough to get you started. Welcome back.Ian Ironwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776355241706284910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-8913777150712503922012-08-29T17:35:42.460-04:002012-08-29T17:35:42.460-04:00Nail on the head stuff sir!! Nail on the head stuff sir!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-87337117817829083332012-08-29T17:34:58.972-04:002012-08-29T17:34:58.972-04:00What's your recommendation?What's your recommendation?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-55533999521970935382012-08-29T17:25:05.164-04:002012-08-29T17:25:05.164-04:00Yeah. "Betazation" is a popular term for...Yeah. "Betazation" is a popular term for it. Curable, thank God.Peregrine Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03511962495322344119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4514791571109198162.post-90333949459388568402012-08-29T17:12:20.707-04:002012-08-29T17:12:20.707-04:00Is there something called, 'had Game once and ...Is there something called, 'had Game once and now lost it?'. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com