Remember, there is no right answer, except in the sense that you are evaluating raw, hard, objective data about your sex life. Every relationship is different, so don't feel competitive with other men about your stats. What's important is what you feel when you look down at those raw numbers, and realize what they say about you, your wife, and your relationship. Without real data, it's impossible to spot a problem, much less fix one.
Feel free to share your results here (Anonymously, if you like), because while this isn't a competition, the whole secondary purpose of this exercise is to share data with your peers for review. If you're working a Red Pill strategy, how does it stack up to the Blue Pill strategies? Let's see what the data says. And no embellishments, Gentlemen.
Lastly, Happy Hallowe'en, and to my Pagan brethren, may you have a productive and reflective Samhain!